I suppose that Jeffrey Lewis stated the true nature of friendship best in his song "Life",Friends are people that you can talk with/Some will talk about that/Some will talk about this/But everyone changes and forever is a myth/Friends are the people that you can talk with/Alot of them will leave but there's only a few you're gonna miss...
Lately I've been evaluating the friendship of one of my best friends. I've had my suspicions for a while that his friendship wasn't really... erm.. "authentic". I just didn't want to face it. I think that I'm beginning to open my eyes and percieve things as they truly are rather than how I wish they were. It feels like a divorce though because this is, as I said, one of my best friends. In fact, when I think of friends he is one of the only two people that come straight to mind. I've been so blind lately about this person's true antics. It's starting to rub this friendship thin. We will see how much more of this I can stand.
It's so hard to make the final decision to give up on a friend, i've had to do this a couple times, though each time it'll break your heart, you know in the end it's for the best. Some people don't deserve to take part in your life.
ReplyDeleteLookie what i found a minute ago:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/typefour/3232300541/sizes/l/